Knowing How To Tell A Good Man Or Women

Knowing How to Tell your Eve from Ms.Thang
and your Adam from that Thugg
By Mrs. Charlene Crooms
I for one I'm very tired of men saying that all women are no good and we are all alike. But today less just set the record straight. Most men don't know how to tell there Eve from ms Thang. And In order to do that you indeed have to go back to the basics. God decided that It was not good for man to be along so he put Adam to sleep and made Eve ( and before you even get It out of your mouth weather you're a male or female we all lie and or capable of betrayal.
Because In fact it was a man Judas that betrayed Jesus. I thought I would put that out there so we could get back to the point of my story. The problem with relationships weather male or female Is that we don't choose our Adam or our Eve we tend to choose Ms. Thang or that Thug ( if your always wondering well how did I get her or get him or he or she Is just to good for me then you chose the wrong one why Is It we never choose a mate that has the same likes or dislikes that we have or that like doing the same things we like doing if you meet your mate out at the club partying why would you think that you could change them Into a stay at home person?
If your mate loves to go out and buy expensive things and shop all the time why would you feel that you could change them into a person that saves money and is financially responsible. If your mate does not take care of or is not responsible for there own kids what makes you think that they would want to play mom or dad to your kids. Guys why do you always choose Ms Thang who knows she's hot and got it going on yet you always say you want a lady in the streets. But when you meet your Ms Thang she caught your eyes by the way she was dressed. Yet you will pass your Eve up because she was only dressed nice.

But you know what they say but I'm going to word it a little different you can’t turn your Ms Thang into an Eve. Ladies Tupac said it best in his lyrics Thug Passion and we took it to the head but ladies please stop saying that there are no good men left. The problem is we always tend to look over the good man our Adam, for the Thug and his Passion, we never want the man that's dressed nice we say they are square’s but the pants hanging off there behinds
hat turned to the back and we feel that.

We look at the cars they drive the rims on the tires and how much bang they have In the trunk If the screens Is falling we like that but a man In a nice car we look right past them. A man that's able to open up and express his love and his feeling for us we take advantage of him. And see that as a sign of weakness but a man that we have to
buy his love and affection were cool with that.

A man that will take time out and want to spend time with his kids some women will keep them from there kids and want to file child support because they no longer want to be with them. And they give the good man the baby momma drama but the thug we let them make it. We let the thug treat us any oh kind of way dog us out and disrespect us and we love that well ladies let me tell you, you will never be able to turn a scrub Into your Adam just remember a man or a women can only treat you how you let them. So here are some good ways to tell a good man or women from the Thug or Ms Thang. Is first see if he or she is into
spiritual things Instead of material things?

See if he or she has a job and able to pay there own bills and take care of there responsibilities before you can expect him or her to take care of yours. See if he or she is driving there own car so they won't always be in yours and you’re waiting on him or her to return to pick you up. See if he or she takes care of there own kids before you expect them to be a daddy or mommy to yours. So if you have felt this letter then make a copy and spread the word.
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